The stress of managing after school snacks, homework, supper, extra curricular
activities, and bedtime routines can be enough to send parents to the brink of
insanity. September always leaves me feeling anxious and overwhelmed. Today, I am sharing a few tips that I find helpful this time of year.
1) Don't over-schedule your family -- This is tough for me because I have three boys that want to be in everything! However... in order to cope, children and parents need to work together
to choose extra curricular activities and a schedule that is manageable.
2) Use a family calendar -- I could not function without the
calendar on the inside of my kitchen cupboard. I use it to record everything I need to know
about the schedules of everyone in my family – including appointments, gym
days, theme days at school, meetings, extra-curricular activities, family
birthdays, vacation plans, work deadlines, and more. I would be absolutely lost
without the ability to glance at my calendar every morning and see the day’s
agenda.
3) Plan weeknight meals -- I like to plan a weeks worth of meals and do most of my shopping on Sunday. I
also use my slow cooker, prep meals in the morning, and have things in the
freezer for the really busy nights.
4) Pack a bag of healthy snacks and water -- I like to pack almonds, fruit, cheese strings, sandwiches, and yogurt
tubes. Everyone is in better cheer with a full belly, and there is no
temptation to grab fast food or over-priced junk out of a vending machine.
5) Use “Ready to Go” bags -- Pack bags containing everything needed for
particular activities. For example, after every
swimming lesson, I wash my boys’ bathing suits and towels and put them right
back into the “swim bag”. This way, I am not scrambling to find things every
time we head out the door.
6) Do homework "on the go" -- Packing homework and books is also helpful, especially when
children are being dragged to the activities of their siblings. Getting
homework done before supper makes life a lot easier.
7) Make sure everyone
gets enough sleep -- It is sometimes a struggle, but I try very hard to adhere to
strict and consistent bed times. It has been my experience that well rested
children are much easier to get along with.
Trying to get back into a routine this time of year can be really tough, but investing time getting organized can really pay off. Do you have any tips for taming the after-school chaos? I can use all the help I can get!